Tuesday 30 September 2014

Dating is not a sin!

Dating is no more a new phenomenon amongst the youths of our generation. It's a trend that teenagers cannot wait to experience; if as a youth you don't have a boy/girlfriend your friends will probably assume something is wrong with you, most girls cannot wait to enter into higher institution of learning where they'll have enough freedom to do what they like.

Well, I will like to ask you why it's usually kept secret from biological and spiritual parents if it's okay to date? Note that ''Nearly half of teenage girls who have been in a relationship say they have been victims of verbal, emotional, physical or sexual abuse by their boyfriends.'' Most of them are still regretting loosing their virginity the way and to whom they did!
Most guys call it "experimenting".

I have seen many youths argued that dating may not lead to sex (which it's not sinful) but I insist that dating is just like 'hookups' which either in the long or short run — involves anything from kissing to fooling around, body romance, oral sex, phone sex and sexual intercourse. Hence, romancing someone that you are not legally married to is it a sin?
Read Romans 6:13 'Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves COMPLETELY to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God.(NLT)'

Dating itself represented a historical change. It evolved out of a courtship ritual where young women entertained gentleman callers, usually in the home, under the watchful eye of a 'chaperon'.
Courtship on the other hand is still been uphold by some Bible based church today.

I encourage you fellow youth to prayerfully enter into courtship when you're ready for marriage rather than this senseless dating relationship which has almost stolen your joy of salvation!

THE CURSE of BASTARD

THE CURSE of BASTARD

(I have never heard anything like this until last week as I press forward in writing my book, I believe Holy Spirit impressed it on my heart because He want to first deliver me and then many others. I began to ask questions, below are few from my findings.)

"A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD". Deuteronomy 23:2

"The curse of the Bastard attempts to destroy one's life. The curse will kill you if it can. It will use illness. It will use other people. It will use you. It will use whatever means it can''. By Jeff Hall.

It can keep generations locked-in in sexual sin. See Exo 20:5.

Pray thus: father remember your word in Galatians 3:13 which say; But Christ has rescued us from the curse pronounced by the law. When he was hung on the cross, he took upon himself the curse for our wrongdoing. For it is written in the Scriptures, "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree."

Lord Jesus, (by the reason of what is written in Galatians 3:13, and by the blood of Jesus that was shad on the cross), I disconnect myself from every sin, illness, weakness, every curse, and every spirit that is connected with the CURSE of BASTARD in my family and blood line from 400 years, in Jesus mighty name I pray! Amen

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Don't make her a mum if you're not ready for marriage.

Don't make her a mum if you're not ready for marriage. Taking care of a child is sure more expensive than a wedding dress.

Stop persuading her to have sex with you, if you love her -you'll wait till when you're ready to at least give her a wedding certificate.

This is what happens when you have no standard. Our standard is in Christ Jesus our saviour.

If you allow yourself to be fooled into sex & pregnancy before marriage? It will be your turn to run after him. Soon he'll see another girl with no responsibility of childcare!


 

WHY YOU SHOULD GET YOUR PASTOR INVOLVED!

WHY YOU SHOULD GET YOUR PASTOR INVOLVED!

To achieve success in whatever you do, you need a mentor! No one can succeed alone. Nothing is new here on earth -no matter what you want to do, someone has done it before, and his experience can help you!

Marriage is not always as easy as it seems before going into it, it either make or mar you. The best place Christians should look when in need of help in marriage should be their Pastor and the church. Without pastors, Biblical marriage will soon become history!

I am sure you've heard about Sheep and Shepherd.

The Bible made it clear that the problem of the people of the world is that they are like Sheep without a Shepherd.Matthew 9:36. You should also read Numbers 27:16-17 for clearer understanding.

I believe this is a major challenge facing the church today. There are more and more Christians who just come to church but have never really identify with her. They are doing themselves a disservice.

Pastor is not to choose for you, but he'll help monitor the process to ensure everything is done accordingly and reports back to God.

These and more can happen to any sheep without a shepherd:
i. Choose a path without giving much thought to the matter (rash decision).
ii. Vulnerable to predators.
iii. Vulnerable to diseases.
iv. Vulnerable to pitfalls.

I believe, and it's evident that children without parents will suffer, and this is why we have many half baked Christian youths in the church today, they don't want to be controlled by authority, they love been free to do things their own way... this saying is correct: "If you don't want to serve someone, nobody will serve you". If you don't honour your pastor, how do you honour God whom you don't see?

CHILDREN, OBEY "your parents in the Lord" [as His representatives], for this is just and right. Honor (esteem and value as precious) your father and your mother--this is the first commandment with a promise-- Ephesians 6:1-2
How do you honour your parents if you don't involve them in your marriage decision?

ORAL SEX IN MARRIAGE!

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Reuben and sex!

Reuben lose his birthright because of sex! Do you have to wait till you lose yours? You don't!

Gen. 35:22b ....Reuben went and lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine: and Israel heard it....

Just like Jacob, God sees you as you secretly do your thingz... but it's as if He doesn't notice you. But on judgment day no one, action or inaction will be overlooked, not even the thought of our heart! Judgment will be sudden just like Reuben did not expect it.

This was Reuben's judgment as recorded in Gen. 49:2-4. "Gather yourselves together, and hear, ye sons of Jacob; and hearken unto Israel your father. Reuben, thou art my firstborn, my might, and the beginning of my strength, the excellency of dignity, and the excellency of power: Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel; because thou wentest up to thy father’s bed; then defiledst thou it: he went up to my couch."

Remember: Hebrew 13:8 says, Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. It was Reuben's turn, it could be ours anytime.

One thing seem common with some youths of now-a-days; i. e. I notice that Reuben never asked for forgiveness, perhaps he assumed it's no big deal!

I pray you will not be caught in the web of such assumption in Jesus name.

Repent now, while you can!