Thursday 2 October 2014

FOR MEN!

Woman gets angry and disappointed when their sexual need is not met; that's because they rarely talk about it, they can even deny it if asked.

This shouldn't be allowed to degenerate into causing unnecessary quarrel in marriage. It's not sinful to talk about your sexual abilities and desire with your husband. It can solve many small issues in marriage and foster close relationship.

Next time you want more than he has given, please talk to him about it, even if it won't bring immediate change -gently though, so you don't make him feel less than a man!

During dating relationship, who bears the pain?

 During dating relationship, who bears the pain?

During dating relationship among youths, in most cases, when a girl gets pregnant before she's ready she bears the pain or consequences almost alone.

At some time, she'll cry and cry, she'll most likely drop out of school, she loses parents and family's trust and confidence, she looses her dignity & self esteem, she face the probability of not being able to pursue her dreams, she probably will live with the regret throughout her life, etc -while the boy most likely continue with his life unhindered! Unfortunately, He probably will hate the girl in the end.

More than 90% of teenage girls who become victim of unwanted pregnancy never recovers from it's effects.

Please tell the teenage girls you know who probably will soon be trying things out with boys.

Girls, be wise!
THE CURSE of BASTARD

(I have never heard anything like this until last week as I press forward in writing my book, I believe Holy Spirit impressed it on my heart because He want to first deliver me and then many others. I began to ask questions, below are few from my findings.)

"A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD". Deuteronomy 23:2

"The curse of the Bastard attempts to destroy one's life. The curse will kill you if it can. It will use illness. It will use other people. It will use you. It will use whatever means it can''. By Jeff Hall.

It can keep generations locked-in in sexual sin. See Exo 20:5.

Pray thus: father remember your word in Galatians 3:13 which say; But Christ has rescued us from the curse pronounced by the law. When he was hung on the cross, he took upon himself the curse for our wrongdoing. For it is written in the Scriptures, "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree."
Lord Jesus, (by the reason of what is written in Galatians 3:13, and by the blood of Jesus that was shad on the cross), I disconnect myself from every sin, illness, weakness, every curse, and every spirit that is connected with the CURSE of BASTARD in my family and blood line from 400 years, in Jesus mighty name I pray! Amen

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Wednesday 1 October 2014

MARRIAGE IS A CALL! (A word for both singles & married)

MARRIAGE IS A CALL! (A word for both singles & married)

Being alone is not good according to Genesis 2:18 The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him". So, God instituted marriage as a way of making what was not good to become good. Hence, marriage is a call to make good what was formally not good -good!

Marriage is a call for the people who have agreed by covenant to become one in service of God our maker. It's also a call to service each each other -husband serves his wife and wife serves her husband, and together they fulfill the purpose and will of God for their life.

Marriage is a call for collaboration, it's a call to join forces to fight a common enemy and have common victory - Deuteronomy 32:30 How should one chase a thousand, and two put ten thousand to flight, except their Rock had sold them, and the LORD had shut them up? Joshua 23:10 One man of you puts to flight a thousand,
since it is the LORD your God who fights for you, just as he promised you. See also Matthew 18:19. The above Scripture implies that God + husband + wife = absolute victory. One will chase a thousand and two will defeat ten thousand, this is especially true to all married couples who have God as their rock! 

Marriage is a call from selfishness to oneness. It's a call to complete an incomplete person with another incomplete person to make a complete one couple. It's a way of perfecting an imperfect man/woman. You will never get married if you continue to look for a perfect spouse.

True confession: I forget so easily, but God gave me a wife who's brain retains whatever she hears!

Marriage is a call for two different individual from different background and upbringing to become one. It's for those who will say it's no longer 'I', or how it's done in my father's house, but how God says to do -in agreement with your spouse. marriage is for those who are willing to learn together, share profit and lose.

During wedding, when couples say "Yes, I do", your allegiance is not first to your spouse but to God the proprietor of marriage. You're saying, "yes Lord" I agree to serve him or her as onto you -Lord! It's unfortunate that what is mostly common in marriage today is couples who are running their individual race, I must say that this is contrary to God's plan for marriage.

The Scripture says; "and the two will become one flesh.' So
they are no longer two, but one flesh". Mark 10:8. Here, becoming one is usually not as easy as couples expects it to be. The mistake we usually make is that we fail to realize that "becoming one" requires "working out".

Join me next time as we look into what it takes to work out -becoming one!

It's my prayer that our marriages will not only work out and be sweet, but that it also fulfill God's purpose in Jesus name. Amen!

Please drop your comments and questions, let's learn together and better our marriage lives!
Thanks for your time!